She pretends to be having no issue to me at times but I am concerned that this will have a negative impact on our relationship with her (mother) once we get married. This is his first true long term sexual relationship at 19 years, so obviously this is having an affect on him. Take the initiative when you sense genuine estrangement. My son began dating this girl when he was 17. ParentalQuestions.com is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.com and its partnered brands/websites. "The key is to start from . Well, he told her and the woman blasted my sweet friend (and me) on social media so that the world could see!! She hates our whole family for no reason at all. Thank you, Lori. Is that what he wanted? Obviously, we must have a very different circle of friends, coworkers and relatives. We need to question why this girl attracts him. 8. Please remember to keep everything positive and loving or your mother will accuse your new wife as the bringing of bad feelings or coming between mother and son. "Nice" young ladies/girls can have sexual hang-ups. I'm sorry to hear about your difficult situation. The time to say your peace is before they reach the altar. Lori Phillips (author) from Southern California USA on December 08, 2017: Susan, this sounds like less of a problem about the girlfriend and more with your adult son. I'm at a loss over what to do about my 23 year old son's older "fiance". But you'll be the one who has to live with your choice for the rest of your life. Hi Lori. please help.I have a difficulty with my mother currently. She offers something that he wants on a physical, emotional or psychological level. I got him home, cleaned him up (she had dragged him down in just a few short months) - he was dirty and stinky! Sometimes, mothers assume their children know they are loved but it is important to express it in words as well as actions. My girlfriend and i we've been dating for 5 months now, I've been the kind of guy to take photos to preserve memories and all, but my girlfriend doesn't like her pictures taken by me. original sound - Ryan The Lion. I haven't said anything cos I don't want to hurt my son and put him in the middle of something that he is not responsible for. Never put her on the spot, especially when other family members are present. I implore you all not to cut ties with your son for any reason. Will she be good for him? There is so much more to this, but all I can tell you is that I think he has truly been brainwashed! Contact amy.frank@vpetalent.com with your story to apply. They will become co-dependent. If you've encouraged his free will and chosen your battles wisely, he'll more likely be receptive to your sincere input as an adult. I am crying because I was hurt of what he did! I honestly didn't like the girl for him because she was really childish and I think they're too young yet. Be loving towards him. The important matter to focus on is that you aren't an underage child or young adult and you don't need your mother's approval for this relationship. Your life, your choice. People tell that hate is a strong word but there is no other way to describe how. My problem is a little different. Then there was the mornings she would stay in bed and my son trying to wake her but she wouldn't get up. Instead of losing your son, you may gain a daughter and even a very good friend. Anything I say or do is considered wrong and I no longer know how to behave . Here are some ideas to lighten the mood and make her feel welcome. Watching your kid with a controlling significant other can be challenging. The woman has started expressing dislike for my three year old grandson. I am a stepdad to an 18/19 yo son, and yes I do mean son, as that is how I see him, and not my stepson.
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